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Describe your affair Share your experience and show examples of how a good (or bad) affair proceeded. How did you meet? What worked and what didn't? Let us all live your life vicariously. These real-life stories don't need to have erotic detail unless you wish to share. |
 07/24/11 at 07:19:46In: Re: Amazing Sex By: Crazy Love |
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Confessional You've successfully hidden your affair, but you need to tell someone! We offer no penance here, just willing readers that want to hear your tales. Let it all out as you are among friends. |
11/22/11 at 18:14:02 In: Re: I can't get over him By: Dick |
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Happily Ever After We all love happy endings and rarely get this perspective on affairs. Do you have a tale to tell when everything works out just right? Share the love and hope. |
06/08/10 at 15:30:37 In: Re: When do you go for yo... By: Dick |
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Reasons for Infidelity There are as many triggers and reasons for an affair as there are couples that engage in them. Share them here and help people learn from your experience. |
02/10/11 at 15:02:36 In: Why I Had An Affair By: CC |
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Ethical Considerations Discussion of the moral and ethical dilemmas surrounding affairs and adultery. Note that general rants against infidelity aren't welcome as the audience for the site isn't generally receptive to such black and white definitions. |
04/02/10 at 20:36:49 In: Re: Should love be limite... By: Dick |
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Effects on Children How does your affair affect the children in your lives? Whether discovered or not, affairs will change the way you see the world. Exposure and the threat of divorce can be impactful. Discuss here. |
05/03/10 at 04:33:02 In: Re: How old before kids c... By: smile2010 |
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Getting Beyond Guilt Your affair is not about intentionally hurting others. Good people have affairs. |
02/14/11 at 20:02:41 In: Re: Affairs can improve l... By: Dick |
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Making the Decision What do you need to take into account before embarking on your affair? Pros and Cons? |
04/28/09 at 15:33:35 In: Re: Affairs are expensive... By: Dick |
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Planning and Preparation How to organize your life to welcome an affair. Preparing for the changes required. |
07/10/11 at 01:12:55 In: Re: Integration By: Dick |
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Beginning your Affair Starting an affair is exciting. How to find the right person and manage your courtship. |
04/02/10 at 20:41:55 In: Re: Online sources to fin... By: Dick |
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Setting the Rules In order to be successful, every affair has rules. When can you call? Where can you meet? What shouldn't you say? |
03/21/11 at 19:25:08 In: Re: Our Rules By: Crazy Love |
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Activities to Enjoy Most affairs have passionate sex. But what other activites can a special couple enjoy safely? Where are the especially romantic (and tolerant) places? Favorite ways to tell your partner you love them? |
01/23/11 at 22:41:52 In: Re: Favorite gifts for yo... By: roger22 |
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Places to Play Discretion is key and hotels are the obvious, but not always economical choice. Discuss your favorite meeting spots and tips for making time for each other. |
06/08/10 at 15:35:35 In: Re: Public parks By: Dick |
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Managing the Family Balance Keeping your two worlds apart, and tending to both, can be difficult. |
03/21/11 at 19:33:05 In: Re: Managing sex between ... By: Crazy Love |
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Maintaining Privacy Discretion is the key to any affair being kept under wraps. |
12/09/09 at 14:00:00 In: Re: Mobile phone records By: Dick |
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Avoiding Physical Evidence Dealing with the compexities of cards and gifts, avoiding stray hairs, and reducing signs of the affair. |
12/09/09 at 14:25:15 In: GPS Tracking By: Dick |
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Body Language Avoiding behavior that tips off your spouse. What cues give you away? What "mental evidence" are you leaving behind? |
04/27/11 at 07:11:41 In: Re: What creates suspicio... By: CC |
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Tips and Tricks Members offering tips and tricks to managing the affair. Share best practices here and help each other avoid problems that you have resolved. |
11/22/11 at 18:28:23 In: Prepaid cell phones and a... By: Dick |
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| Ending an Affair | Last Post | Topics | Posts |
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Handling Discovery Have you been found out? How to get through the drama and prepare yourself for being exposed. |
04/27/11 at 06:26:14 In: Re: Parental response By: CC |
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When it's Run the Course Has the luster run out? Has the excitement dulled? What happens when the affair isn't what it used to be? |
03/28/09 at 16:10:45 In: Re: Ending gracefully By: Red |
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Issues Surrounding Divorce The dreaded "D" word. Lawyers, money, and the complications around custody, dignity, and moving on. |
05/14/10 at 17:36:42 In: Resources to help make th... By: Dick |
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Questions asked of Dick Dick's responses to "Ask Dick and Jane" Moderator: Dick
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08/18/10 at 16:18:33 In: Re: Spouse finding out By: Dick |
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Questions asked of Jane Jane's responses to "Ask Dick and Jane" Moderator: Jane
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03/17/10 at 20:40:14 In: Re: Abusive and suicidal ... By: Jane |
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Questions asked of Dick and Jane Dick and Jane respond to "Ask Dick and Jane" Moderators: Dick, Jane
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09/09/09 at 20:34:14 In: Re: Lost By: Dick |
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Suggestions for Website and/or Podcast Please use this board to suggest improvements or features for the Our Secret Affair website, community forum and Podcast. Moderator: Forum Administrator
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12/07/11 at 23:42:11 In: Podcast By: Dick |
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General Discussions This is the board for discussion of general topics not covered in other sections. Use it for topics that aren't related to extramarital affairs. No solicitations or advertising permitted. Moderator: Forum Administrator
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07/31/10 at 14:45:50 In: Re: How did you find the ... By: DTTFSA |
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